The things men and women are ashamed to say

Flirtatious men always say sweet words, but women fall for it the most and foolishly believe that those words are true. Little do people know that this is just a trick used by philandering men to deal with women. Let's open our eyes and see what philandering men often say.

1. "As long as you are happy, I will buy you whatever you want."

Many women feel very happy when they hear this sentence and think that this man loves them very much. In fact, truly rich men will not say these words, but will prove it directly with actions. Most men who say this have little financial strength and they just say it occasionally to make you happy. In fact, these philandering men have grasped the psychology of women. Women who are not truly materialistic will not really ask them to fulfill this statement, and those women who ask them to fulfill this statement, they think they cannot satisfy themselves and will not say it easily. And once you really ask for it, he will most likely turn around and say that you are a gold digger. It is better to leave such a man as soon as possible, and don't be happy about the blank checks he writes.

2. “You look a lot like my first love.”

When a man says this, many women will feel a little dizzy, thinking that he must be a loyal person because he still can't let go of his first love. And I felt that if he was so good to his first love, he would definitely be good to me after we were together.

But in fact, these are all lies made up by philandering men. How do you know what his first love was like before you get to know him? And how can you be sure that he didn't dump his first girlfriend? Men are always good at taking advantage of women's romantic qualities and making up some romantic love lies to make you believe that he has fallen in love with you.

3. “I’m really sincere.”

When a man says this, a woman may feel very happy and think that he is really sincere in dating me, but this is not the case. In fact, that was only the first half of his sentence. What he really wanted to say was: "I really want to sleep with you." A philandering man does not make his true purpose clear, and women make their own judgments, so women will take the bait. And after they say this, they will list to you a lot of things he has done for you. Should you be happy or helpless? In fact, a man who truly loves you will not say these words in front of you. A philandering man says so much, but in the end he only has one purpose - to trick you into bed. When you wake up, you will understand the true meaning of what he said.

4. "Do you like me? I will pursue you only if you like me."

Why do you have to wait until I like you before you dare to pursue me? This kind of man actually wants to make a guarantee first to make sure that you will really take the bait before making a move. What hope do you have from a man who doesn't even have the courage to withstand failure? A man who truly loves you won't ask this question. Only philandering men will do this in order to hunt prey. They are just taking advantage of your goodwill and easily tricking you into their hands.

5. "I must not be your type, otherwise you would have been with me a long time ago, right?"

Many women will think that such men are very confident and courageous. After saying this, they will look at you pitifully, making you feel that it is a mistake not to be with him. But I think such a man is too narcissistic. Are you so attractive? Why must I be with you? Acting pitiful is actually one of the tricks of philandering men. They can belittle themselves in front of you, and when they get you, they will sneer at you, thinking that you have actually been attracted to him for a long time and are just pretending to be reserved.

6. "I have a girlfriend, but we are about to break up. She is very bad..."

This kind of man is a typical playboy. He has a red flag flying at home and colorful flags flying outside. Since you already have a girlfriend, why are you still flirting with other girls outside?! Some women think that such men are very frank and that since they can tell you that they have a girlfriend, they must really want to be with you. But in fact, that is just a way for the philandering man to gain your sympathy. If a man complains about his girlfriend in front of you and tells you how she abused him, you will feel soft-hearted and sympathetic towards him for a while, but then you will fall into his trap. But when you really get together with him, you realize that everything he told you was a lie, and he didn't even break up with his girlfriend. At this time, you will find that you have inexplicably become the third party.

So sisters, you must open your eyes and see clearly whether he truly loves you or is just a philandering man waiting to hook you.