Please keep your eyes open when facing a woman living with you

In real life, cohabitation has become a very normal phenomenon. From a positive perspective, cohabitation can help couples to adjust their living conditions and feelings; from a negative perspective, cohabitation may ruin one party, especially girls. If they choose to cohabit blindly, their future will become bleak and they will lose many precious things.

Hasty cohabitation hurts the girl

Compared with boys, cohabitation may cause greater harm to girls. They not only have to bear the pressure of public opinion, but also have to bear the risk of pregnancy, so girls must take care of themselves. Every decision you make is directly related to your lifelong happiness.

There are many examples of unmarried couples living together parting ways due to emotional discord. There is really no point in arguing endlessly about who suffered more after breaking up. After all, when you chose to be together in the first place, you did it without hesitation. Why bother to bring up the past after breaking up? Who suffers more after breaking up from cohabitation is a groundless question in itself. If you are compatible, then stay together; if you are not, then break up. Why hurt each other after breaking up? At least you once loved each other.

Living together "just to make do" is self-torture

Before living together, couples usually have a deeper understanding of each other, but before living together, everyone will show their best side to each other, making the other person feel that living with them should be a very happy thing.

But once we start living together, we find that things are not what we initially imagined. During our cohabitation, many shortcomings of the other party are exposed, some of which are even unbearable for you. You will find that she is not as cute as you imagined, and he is not as gentlemanly as you imagined.

When you discover that the other person has shortcomings that you cannot tolerate, you may still forgive him or her because of your love for each other. Some people even compromise and decide to live with the other person against their own will, and endure the pain of living a makeshift life. Friends, you should know the purpose of living together. It is to get to know each other more deeply and see if the other person is the one who can spend the rest of your life with you. If you feel unhappy living together now, you will not be happy in the future. A forced melon is not sweet. We should accept the reality and let go rationally, giving each other a chance to make new choices.

Money becomes a conflict in cohabitation

A man will feel justified in covering all the expenses of a relationship. However, once you really live together, the common living expenses are definitely not something a young man who has been in society can afford. There will always be a day when he will not accompany you on a shopping spree, and even if you do, he will let you pay for your beautiful clothes yourself. Gradually, you will have conflicts and start to use the AA system to solve problems in your marriage. Even this seemingly fair method cannot solve the problem well.

Because you will inevitably think that since he spends too much time on the computer, he should pay more for the internet fee, and since she spends too much time on the phone, she should pay more for the phone bill. It won't be long before this so-called fair AA system will be killed by the trivialities of life. Therefore, before you want to live together, you must be frank with your spouse and it is best to weigh and reconcile the two based on your respective income ratios and spending habits.

Sex is the most destabilizing factor in cohabitation

When men and women live together, many people's original intention may be to solve sexual problems, but I think sex is not the only reason, because many girls simply believe that sex is a powerful weapon to tie a man down. But doing the same thing for a long time will cause fatigue. In fact, these are not the main reasons. More reasons are due to the problems exposed in the other person, such as he eats loudly, she does not pay attention to dressing up, she cares about me too much, etc. Unconsciously, you will find that the original passion no longer exists, and you have become the "sex-forbidden group" under the polishing of years.