Managing love without touching the six deadly weaknesses of men

There is a common phenomenon in life called "falling out with each other". It is not because the man has a bad temper, but because you have touched his sore spot. Not all men have the courage to divorce. When a man who does not have the capital to file for divorce is frequently touched by his wife, he will deliberately be indifferent or avoid his wife in his actions. For this reason, as a wife, you must know what a man’s weak spot is and don’t touch it easily. The man will be grateful to you for the rest of his life.

Fatal problem 1: Don’t call a man frequently to urge him to go home when he is socializing

Men's social activities basically revolve around two aspects. One is to pave the way for career, and the other is to pave the way for relaxation. For this reason, when men are socializing, they frequently receive urging calls from their wives. Men know that it is concern, but they feel embarrassed in front of their friends. A smart man will inform his wife in advance before socializing, and a smart woman will send a greeting text message when her husband comes home late.

Fatal flaw 2: Don’t ask questions when a man is upset

When a man is upset, he doesn't like to talk, but prefers absolute silence. However, out of curiosity and concern, women often like to get to the bottom of things when men are upset. This not only fails to show real concern, but makes men even more upset, and usually ends in a quarrel between the couple. For this reason, smart women will often stay by their men's side quietly when they are upset, and be a qualified listener rather than an interrogator at any time.

Fatal flaw 3: Don’t expose a man’s shortcomings or embarrassing moments in front of his friends and family

Everyone has funny pasts and shortcomings. The reason why they are defenseless in front of their families is because men feel there is no need to pretend in front of their families. However, in front of outsiders, men will occasionally pretend to be ordinary people. At this time, as a wife, don't expose the truth about men, and don't think that your husband is hypocritical, because living in a social environment where "dogs look down on people", sometimes pretending to be strong can also buy yourself some opportunities.

Fatal flaw 4: Don’t force a man to have sex when he is physically tired

Men are not as lustful as women, but they definitely desire sex more than women. However, men sometimes find themselves unable to do what they want. When a man is so tired from work that he doesn't even want to talk, as his wife, please don't force him to have sex. Not only will you be easily rejected by the man, but you may also force the woman to say something like "you're useless" in anger, which will greatly hurt the man's vitality.

Fatal flaw 5: Don’t frequently criticize his parents and siblings in front of a man

A man can occasionally complain about his parents or siblings not being helpful, but as a wife, you should not agree with him, and you should not take the initiative to criticize his parents or siblings. Family affection will become much weaker with the establishment of a new family, but at the critical moment, family affection will erupt with unimaginable power. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if your husband frequently complained about your parents and siblings in front of you?

Fatal flaw 6: Don’t frequently search a man’s pockets or peek into his phone

Men's pockets usually contain mobile phones, pocket money, cigarettes, and lighters. Even so, women should not touch men's pockets easily, because in the eyes of men, men's pockets represent dignity and trust. Women frequently checking men's pockets is equivalent to tearing apart men's dignity and destroying the trust between husband and wife. There will be some text messages in a man’s mobile phone that seem ambiguous but are not actually ambiguous. A woman’s peeping will not only cause trouble for herself, but also make the man feel that she is being unreasonable. I dare to ask, if a man cheats, can you stop him by reading his text messages?