Chinese men mind women's past but often ask for sex

Unspoken rule 1: Men care a lot about women’s past

In the eyes of men, a woman’s so-called past is not how many love experiences she has had. What men care about is whether a woman is a virgin. If she is not a virgin, men would like to know how many men the woman had intimate contact with before she met him.

In fact, men are accustomed to trying sex before marriage, and they may not take any responsibility for their pre-marital sexual behavior. However, while men allow themselves to have sex casually before marriage, they are very strict with their future wives' behavior in this regard. This will lead to a situation: women who are too crazy before marriage will find it difficult to find a suitable partner when they reach marriageable age; while men who are unfaithful before marriage will be almost negligibly affected by this aspect.

Hidden rule 2: Men care about women’s motivation for loving them

Although all love has its own purpose, men still pay attention to the motivation of women loving them, especially some men who have a complete car and house before marriage. They will have a certain sense of superiority. During the relationship, they hope that women are with them because they love him as a person, rather than because of his material conditions. For this reason, if a woman is in love with a man who is well-off, she must not express her desire for money too directly, otherwise, the man will kick her out at any time with a grudge.

Hidden rule three: Men care a lot about women’s family conditions

A group of young people will discuss their girlfriends' family conditions. The most favored girlfriend's family condition by men is that the future parents-in-law are from a powerful family, so that they can work less for many years; the second most favored girlfriend's family condition is that both parents have stable jobs, and the girlfriend is the youngest among her sisters. If she is not the youngest, it is better to have a younger sister rather than a younger brother, because men do not want to help their parents-in-law bear the cost of their brother-in-law finding a job or getting married and buying a house after marriage.

The most difficult family conditions for a girlfriend for a man to accept are that his future parents-in-law are in poor health and have no jobs. For this reason, the quality of a woman's family conditions is also an invisible indicator in a man's process of marrying a wife.

Hidden rule 4: Men care a lot about a woman’s height and appearance

Men don't like to marry women who are too beautiful and wear heavy makeup. It comes from men's own lack of self-confidence. Men always think that women who are too beautiful will face various temptations. In order to prevent themselves from being cuckolded, men prefer tall and ordinary women. Men are fond of tall women. On the one hand, their sexy figures are pleasing to the eye, but more importantly, men will consider the height of the next generation. For this reason, among a group of men, tall women who dress simply and have no makeup on are the most popular.

Hidden rule 5: Men care a lot about women’s attitude towards their future in-laws

Nowadays, many people consider getting married after they have graduated from university and worked in society for a year or two. The younger generation, who are accustomed to relying on their parents, actually takes a long time after marriage to complete "complete weaning". For this reason, contemporary men attach great importance to the attitude of their future partner towards their parents.

They mistakenly believe that their high demands on their partners to respect their parents are a sign of filial piety. In reality, they simply have no idea how to deal with the tricky relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. For this reason, a woman must show due civility, courtesy and diligence in front of her future parents-in-law during the stage of love. Once she is rejected by her future parents-in-law, even if the man loves you, he will follow the advice of his parents-in-law and slowly distance himself from you.

Unspoken rule 6: Men care a lot about the nature of women’s work

Men are subconsciously chauvinistic, so most men will not choose to marry strong women or women with higher positions than themselves; men are subconsciously a group that cares about reputation, so most women will not marry secretaries or other women, because the world tells them that women who work as secretaries basically have an inseparable and complicated relationship with their bosses;

Men have civilization and prejudice in their subconscious. For this reason, men will not marry women who work in nightclubs, because men will think, "If you stand by the river often, you will get your feet wet." The most ideal marriage partner for a man must be a woman like a civil servant, because the nature of the work of this type of people not only can give a man face, but also has a relatively stable income, and can also give him plenty of time to take care of the family after marriage.