One-night stand can be addictive

Whether it is a one-night stand or normal sexual intercourse between couples, it is a basic physiological need of human beings. Now people have elevated sex to the level of entertainment. In this case, the emergence of one-night stands has become normal. It is more accurate to say it is a one-night stand rather than a one-night stand, because in a one-night stand there is only sex but no love. Recently, experts have discovered that frequent one-night stands can actually become addictive.

One-night stands can be addictive

Normal, mature adults have sexual desire, which is a basic human need. When you have sexual desire, you need to vent it, which is human nature. The purpose of most "one-night stands" is not for sex itself, but to relieve tense emotions or fill the emptiness in their hearts. When a "one-night stand" exists as a temporary "firefighter", people tend to become dependent on it.

This is like when a person feels nervous, instead of looking for the root cause of the nervousness and improving it, he takes the approach of smoking to relieve it - smoking can certainly relieve the symptoms of mental tension, but it is only a relief and cannot really solve the problem.

Over time, people will become dependent on cigarettes, leading to a more complicated situation where old problems are not solved and new problems arise. Similarly, unrestrained sexual behavior can easily lead to sexual addiction, because unfamiliar sex that lacks intimacy can never make people truly relax or achieve a sense of spiritual fulfillment.

One night stand does not require emotional investment

Some people are addicted to one-night stands because they have psychological problems. The fundamental reason why they are addicted to "one-night stands" is to avoid intimate relationships. Because building relationships requires a certain degree of self-opening, which is a huge challenge for some people. In order to resist the fear of intimacy, they will create an illusion through sex, constantly telling themselves: "I am building a relationship with someone else." Little do they know that this relationship lacking communication and intimacy will instead cause them to fall into deeper frustration and loneliness, and then generate huge anxiety and self-doubt, which in turn will lead to other psychological and physiological problems.

One night stand full of regrets

Of course, one-night stands are also full of regrets that make people sigh. In a normal relationship between a man and a woman, if they have feelings for each other, they can continue to develop the relationship. However, if the relationship starts with a one-night stand, it will be difficult to continue even if they have feelings for each other. When a man and a woman met in a bar, they developed feelings for each other and agreed to have a one-night stand. If one of them falls in love with the other and hopes to continue developing this relationship, they will encounter many psychological and emotional obstacles when they want to establish a trusting, continuous and stable intimate relationship.

In fact, the idea of ​​hoping to build a relationship through a "one-night stand" and then enter into marriage is ridiculous, or even self-deceptive. Because "one-night stand" refers to an exciting sexual experience rather than establishing a stable relationship. In addition, "one-night stands" may also hide various unknown violent factors, such as extortion, kidnapping, sexual abuse and other terrible injuries.

Can you get satisfaction from a one-night stand?

Can a one-night stand really bring satisfaction and pleasure? In fact, what can make us happy is not sex, but love. This sentence points out the essential meaning of sex - we need sex to feel love, relationships, and the sense of security and intimacy of being one with others. As the most ordinary part of the world, there are many things that we cannot fully control, such as our feelings.

One-night stand can only be entertaining

Just as "you can't have your cake and eat it too", it is impossible to get both the "entertainment of a one-night stand" and the "satisfaction of an intimate relationship" from a one-night stand. Because they are mutually exclusive. If we gain breadth of sexual experience, we naturally lose depth, and vice versa.