Four different psychological experiences during sex

Although many people have various problems in their sex life, according to statistics, in addition to problems or troubles in sex life caused by physical health or disorders, most of the time they are caused by psychological or ideological factors. In summary, we can summarize the following points:

1. Nervous or afraid

In a busy society, stressful work emotions extend to daily life and affect the quality of sex life. When having sex in a tense atmosphere, men are prone to premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction because their emotions and muscles cannot relax. Women are also prone to vaginal spasms or inability to reach orgasm when they are emotionally tense. Fear is also one of the main causes of some sexual problems. Whether it is fear of pregnancy, fear of premature ejaculation, fear of sexually transmitted diseases, fear of being caught cheating, fear... these psychological factors of fear will not only prevent you from enjoying your sex life to the fullest, but will also cause problems in sexual intercourse.

2. Perfectionism

Perhaps influenced by mass media, the passionate sex scenes in movies seem to show that lovemaking is so perfect, as if both parties can fully enjoy it every time and can reach orgasm together no matter what the time, place, or posture. Therefore, many people think that if my sex life is not so wonderful, then there is something wrong. In fact, everyone's physical and mental condition changes every day. Good sexual enjoyment not only requires learning, but sometimes it is something you can only encounter by chance. Therefore, what matters to you in your sex life is whether you can coordinate and satisfy each other, rather than pursuing perfection every time.

3. Influence of wrong ideas

The idea that simply emphasizing a man's masculinity and strength can ensure a happy and fulfilling sex life has harmed countless normal men. According to clinical medical statistics, the vast majority of men who believe they have sexual dysfunction actually have completely normal sexual physiological functions. However, under the widespread social stimulation of comparing size, length and duration, these psychological problems will affect their performance in bed.

4. Insufficient sexual knowledge

In this era of open society, modern people have access to information about sex through many different media and channels. However, most of them seem to be more inclined to receive stimulation from sexual information rather than knowledge and understanding of sexual knowledge. Therefore, without healthy and correct knowledge and concepts, making love will lead to many problems and difficulties.

Having a happy and wonderful sex life is everyone's hope and dream, but everyone has their own problems, big or small, in sex. When you face these problems, if it is not an impact on your physical health, then perhaps you should take a closer look at it from a psychological perspective. Sometimes a problem is solved in just a moment.