Why haven’t I had any sexual desire lately?

Sexual life between couples is very normal and necessary, and it is the spice of life. A normal young couple needs sex no less than twice a week. If they do not have sex for a long time, it should be considered abnormal. So what's going on if you have no sexual desire recently? I guess you also think it’s a bit abnormal, let’s take a look at it together.

Although sexual desire is also affected by hormone levels in the blood and physical condition, the loss of sexual desire is mainly a fear rather than caused by disease. It is not difficult to judge through the investigation of sexual history that a person originally had a considerable level of sexual desire, enough to meet his own needs and his partner's needs, but suddenly found that his sexual desire was significantly reduced or disappeared. He will feel fear because of this, as if his sex life is about to end. This fear will block his remaining sexual feelings. Almost all men will experience a decrease in libido when they reach the age of 40 to 50, but some people don't pay attention to it, while others are very nervous. In fact, sexual desire is an instinct. It generally does not disappear completely, but it is easily disturbed by emotions. Therefore, it is crucial to remove inhibitory factors so that the remaining sexual desire can be expressed for as long as possible.

In general, the incidence of loss or reduction of sexual desire varies. In fact, both men and women have a normal period of sexual desire disappearance after sexual intercourse. Additionally, sexual desire can be suppressed when it is replaced by more pressing considerations. When your sexual desire suddenly disappears or decreases, you should consider whether the following factors are affecting it.

Anxiety: Tension and fear caused by a variety of emotional reasons, such as fear of pregnancy, fear of insecurity, fear of being discovered by others, worries about finances or career, etc.

Depression is a loss of morale caused by low mood, self-deprecation, self-abandonment, unfortunate events, or hidden internal factors.

Hostility Overt or covert hostility, such as rage after discovering a partner's infidelity, hostility caused by jealousy, and other hostile emotions caused by other factors.

In fact, every move in life will have an impact on the human body. Bad emotions in life will make people lose desire for everything, including sexual desire. If you want to make all aspects of your life normal, you need to adjust your mood and let this bad emotion affect the entire family and affect the normal life between husband and wife.