Why I refuse to marry a second-hand wife

Sex is something men want before getting married, but why do they require women to be virgins when they get married?

Although people's minds are becoming more and more open now, and the status of women is getting higher and higher, even in the era when cheating is common and mistresses are rampant, the men who occupy the absolute majority of the world cannot accept women's rich love history... Those ordinary men also have the backbone of a gentleman. As a woman, if you insist on asking them why they are so domineering and how they can "only allow the state officials to set fires but not allow the people to light lamps", then I am a man, and I will also tell you that men cannot accept women with rich love histories, and the reasons are nothing more than the following:

1. Men don’t like women with a history of cohabitation, and are even less willing to accept unmarried pregnancy.

A woman with a rich love history must have had several years of cohabitation. A man may be a sex expert, but he is unwilling to compete with an expert in bed. This is not only due to his virgin complex, but also because of his desire to conquer and his face and dignity as a man that he cannot accept. Likewise, they will not accept pregnancy before marriage, and are even less willing to be ready-made fathers.

2. Men cannot accept the existence of their women’s exes, especially multiple exes

No man is willing to enjoy his wife still in contact with her ex-boyfriend after marriage. Ex-boyfriends are dangerous animals for women and a thorn in the throat for men. Therefore, women with a rich love history will still not have peace in their marriage unless they can break up with all their ex-boyfriends forever.

No matter what, most men cannot accept a woman with a rich love history. Even if they are fickle and lustful by nature, and continue to cheat and pursue other women after marriage, they do not want to marry a woman with a rich love history home, so as not to make them feel insecure and be an eyesore. Rather than having this or that discomfort after marriage, it is better to be direct before marriage.

3. Men’s Virgin Complex

Even though the degree of sexual openness is much greater than before, men's "virgin complex" is still deeply ingrained in their bones. Many men will get upset when they find out their wives are not virgins after marriage, and this emotion will become an excuse for them to cheat in the future.

Unlike women, women desire men with rich emotions so that they know how to take care of themselves, while men hope that their women are a blank slate. In their opinion, if a woman has too rich love history, she must have made physical sacrifices. Their male chauvinism forces them to hope that the women they want are always silly, so that they can have a desire to conquer and a sense of accomplishment.

4. Men like women with low emotional intelligence

A woman with a rich love history must have high emotional intelligence. As for men, they like women with low emotional intelligence. They think silly girls are cute and will listen to them. Girls with too high emotional intelligence will give them an invisible pressure. They like to "hunt for beauty" in the love field, but they don't like to be "hunted for beauty."

5. Men are rational animals, while women are emotional animals

In every love affair, when the passion reaches its deepest point, women will be moved to tears, but men will still go their own way, especially in front of a woman with a rich love history, men will unconsciously take a step back. They think that women with a rich love history will be fickle and more skilled. Such an insecure relationship is actually not what they want. They just want a simple woman, a woman they can control, so that they can feel more secure.

Then just kill the woman with a rich love history to avoid future troubles. You can call him selfish or overbearing, but he still behaves the same way. You can ignore him, love him or not, marry him or not!