Newly-married couples need to "sharpen their guns" before entering the bridal chamber

The first major "test" that newlyweds have to face is the bridal chamber. For newlyweds who are experiencing sexual intercourse for the first time, how to do it smoothly and enjoy happiness is a question that needs to be studied carefully. As the saying goes, it is better to sharpen your sword before the battle, even if it is not sharp. Newlyweds can also "sharpen their swords" before entering the bridal chamber! How can you sharpen it well and effectively? Take a look at the following points.

First: Make up lessons before the wedding night

Newly-weds can read some books about sex before going into the bridal chamber. Through learning, they can understand sexual anatomy, physiology, psychology, behavior and other related knowledge, so that they can have a clear idea and avoid "rushing into battle". Moreover, the sooner you get to know each other, the better. It doesn’t mean you have to talk all night long under candlelight in the wedding chamber! That would be too "weird".

You can also learn about sexual life, newlywed health care, and family planning knowledge from professional doctors during the marriage check-up. If you don’t understand something after reading a book on sexual knowledge, you can also ask your doctor during the marriage examination.

Second: fully arouse each other's excitement

In the preparation stage of the bridal chamber, both parties should stimulate and arouse each other's sexual excitement through sweet words, gentle touches, and passionate enthusiasm. They can also stimulate the man's genitals or the woman's private parts and breasts and other sexual sensitive areas to promote the early onset of sexual excitement. Both parties enter the state of sexual excitement and then begin to have sex.

Third: Mutual cooperation in sexual life

What is worth emphasizing during the entire sexual process is that both parties should cooperate with each other, be considerate of each other, and have a tacit understanding with each other. It is the bride's first time to have sex, and she may be a little shy or timid, and a little nervous, so the groom should give her kind words, behave tenderly, and move gently instead of being rough. The bride should also actively cooperate, so that the sex life can be harmonious and happy.

Fourth: Be more gentle after climax

As sexual life progresses, newlyweds will quickly reach climax because it is their first time having sex. The couple begins to enter the climax stage and gradually feel sexual pleasure. The signs of climax are ejaculation in the man, paroxysmal contractions in the woman's vagina, a significant increase in secretions, and a high level of mental excitement. At this time, both parties are in a state of "floating in ecstasy". During this period, both parties should not discuss matters unrelated to sex, so as not to affect the mood of the bridal chamber and cause sexual excitement to subside prematurely.

The climax period is very short, disappearing in a few seconds, and then it turns into a period of decreased sexual response. During this period, the man's penis gradually softens, and the spirits of both parties slowly turn to calmness. Because men's sexual desire subsides faster, women's sexual desire subsides slower. At this time, the groom should continue to caress the bride and wait until the bride's sexual desire completely subsides and she feels tired and sleepy. Only then can they end sexual life and rest together. The groom must pay attention to the woman's physiological characteristics. Don't throw the woman aside and fall asleep alone after ejaculation, as this will affect the woman's sexual satisfaction.

Fifth: Don’t delay in discovering problems

In case the groom suffers from impotence or the bride suffers from vaginal spasm on the wedding night and it affects their sexual life, both parties should remain calm and not blame each other. They can go to the hospital for sexual psychology counseling, truthfully tell the doctor what happened, and generally get a timely and reasonable solution under the doctor's guidance.

In addition, if the first wedding night is not smooth, and you cannot have normal intercourse, or if your wife experiences severe pain or discomfort, you must stop sexual activity. If there is any abnormal condition, you must seek medical attention immediately and do not be impatient or reckless. Failure in first sexual intercourse is common. Don’t worry too much about it. Just try a few more times. If a man feels that his first wedding night is prone to being "soft", it is recommended to use the TOR 2 delay ring produced by LELO. It can effectively increase a man's erection and help delay ejaculation. And it will not affect health, it is a magic tool for the newlyweds' bridal chamber!