Too dirty! The secrets of the ancients are hard to look at

I believe that as long as you experience a soul-stirring sex, you will definitely be addicted to it. In the sexual life of both parties, no one does not want to enjoy passion and pleasure, but these are difficult to achieve for those who have no sexual skills at all. In ancient China, foreplay was very important in sexual techniques. Let's see how the ancients aroused women's sexual desire.

How did ancient Chinese people arouse women’s sexual desire during sex?

Do foreplay before sex

During sexual intercourse between a couple, if the woman is not interested because she is not aroused, her vulva will not be stimulated and dilate, and the vaginal fluid will not flow out for lubrication; if the man has no sexual desire, his penis will not become erect and hard. These all hinder the smooth progress of sexual intercourse.

Before sex, couples should first sense each other and stimulate each other's sexual desire

If the man cannot move the woman, the woman will not be happy and will not respond; if the woman cannot move the man, the man's penis will not erect and he will not be active. In the case of unrequited love, if the couple cannot coordinate and harmonize with each other, and their essences cannot sense each other, if they rush into intercourse and use rough movements, it will more easily cause disgust in the other party and make it difficult to achieve a good thing.

If the two people are in harmony with each other's sexual desires before sex and both have sexual needs, the contraction and relaxation of the woman's vagina can stimulate the man's penis, making it stronger and larger; in turn, this promotes the flow and lubrication of the woman's vaginal fluid, so that both parties can get sexual satisfaction.

There are two ways for couples to have sex

Generally speaking, there are two different ways to start sexual intercourse: one is to start suddenly; the other is to caress each other first and then start when both parties are excited. Obviously, the former is not in line with sexual hygiene and may easily lead to conflicts and pain. The latter can meet the requirements of sexual psychology and physiology of the couple's sexual life and enable both parties to enjoy high-quality sexual pleasure, but it is often not easy for men and women, especially young and middle-aged couples, to get used to it. If they can adapt to it, both parties will benefit greatly. Foreplay mainly includes flirting such as hugging, kissing, touching, and sweet talk.

Ancient Chinese Sex Therapy

In ancient China, the art of sex attached great importance to these movements and measures. It was believed that before sexual intercourse, there must be a soothing, gentle and orderly stage of mutual caressing and play in order to achieve emotional harmony and sexual arousal.

For example, the medical bamboo slips "He Yin Yang" from the Han Dynasty Tomb of Mawangdui in Changsha, China believed that foreplay was for the purpose of achieving the four signs for men (i.e., the four signs that the male penis is full, erect, hard, and hot for a long time); and for women to achieve the five desires (i.e., kissing, hugging, touching sensitive areas, sucking on the tongue and lips, and slowly rocking close, which can make the woman's face and neck flush and feel hot, her breasts firm, her nose sweating, her mouth lubricated, her vagina flowing, and her throat dry and saliva swallowing, etc.)

If both parties have achieved the four extremes and five desires respectively, their qi and blood will flow smoothly and their sexual desire will be satisfied during formal sexual intercourse.