Action and imagination are the biggest differences between men and women

Orgasm is the ultimate goal of sex. How to make the orgasm more intense? In addition to cooperating with each other, couples should also learn the following tips. So, how can couples enjoy a great orgasm?

1. Men act for love, women imagine for love.

Men instinctively like toys like guns, while women like emotional toys. It is possible that both parties may not receive a corresponding response from the other party, so conflicts may sometimes arise. Men prove their value and existence by completing things, while women prefer to stay together in an environment of love and hope that their husbands will tell them everything. However, men generally do not speak up because they think that telling them will increase her burden, but women think that it means they do not trust her, thus creating a gap in communication between men and women. Men and women deal with problems in completely different ways. For example, when driving and don't know the way, men will not stop to ask for directions immediately, but women will ask right away. When men are doing things, women should not point fingers from the side, which will make him very annoyed. He feels that you are provoking his most instinctive thing - self-esteem. He will be most energetic when protecting his self-esteem.

2. Men can only do one thing at a time, but women can do several things at the same time.

A woman enters into a family role as soon as she gets home, while a man needs to relax, read newspapers and watch TV. He needs time to switch roles and time to be idle. If he is concentrating on doing one thing and you insist on talking to him about something else, you have to call him out of the matter. Otherwise, you will have a feeling that he doesn't care about you. You will feel that he is absent-minded and doesn't care about you, but it is he who is unable to pay attention to you.

3. Men see the big picture, while women see the details.

Men have a strong sense of direction, so they fail to take care of the details. For example, if you change your clothes, do your hair... he may feel uncomfortable if he can't see you, but it's actually his instinct. As a woman you can invite (for example you can say: How about this hairstyle?). As a man, she actually expects you to notice it and give her a compliment. She will be very unhappy if you ignore her. It's not a bad idea for you to allow her to nag a few times.

4. Men look for conclusions, while women focus on the process.

Men care about the outcome of things, while women care about the feeling in between. So men will try their best to solve the problem, and will talk about it lightly after solving it. Women need to talk about their problems, and men will immediately give advice and find solutions after hearing them, while women will feel very uncomfortable. So men should learn to listen or use intimate behavior to show their care for her, and it is better for women to say it directly. Don't let men guess and try to find feelings by yourself, you will most likely be frustrated.

5. Men need more time to reveal their true feelings.

Men are taught to be strong since childhood, so they are all super rational, but their emotions are fragile. Women express themselves more directly, are more talkative, and more eloquent. So as a woman, don't always force him to say what you want to hear. He is more willing to do it. As a man, you must learn to satisfy the emotional side of a woman. She needs things expressed in words.