The reasons why women refuse sex have nothing to do with men

When a man is sexually interested, a woman may refuse to take the next step. Recently, a survey published on the US MSNBC website showed that wives refuse sex more often than husbands. At the same time, the reasons why women refuse sex have nothing to do with men. The main reasons are:

1. The underwear is old or damaged . A woman always hopes to let her lover see her perfect side. Yellowed, old underwear can make women feel embarrassed and insecure. At this time, the man should not force it, but ask her: "Do you want to take a shower first?"

2. Indigestion. Indigestion can cause women's stomachs to make noises or produce bad odors, which they find indecent. At this time, the man should be considerate of her, pour her a cup of hot water, and ask her if she needs to go to the bathroom first.

3. Gaining weight. Studies have found that women who are not confident about their body shape generally have a lower quality of sex life. If you haven't seen each other in a while and she keeps saying she's gained weight and resists your advances, she may be worried about her belly. It is best for a man to encourage her: "I just like women with a little meat."

4. Foreplay is too short. When a woman's vagina isn't lubricated enough, she'll say "no" to her partner. Because she doesn't want the man to find out that she is not in the mood yet. At this point, she is hinting at you to be more patient. Continuing to caress her or saying sweet things to her can be very effective.

5. Physical fatigue. When men are tired, they don't have the energy to enjoy passion, and the same is true for women. If a woman says "I'm very tired", then the man should not force her and say to her: "Have a good rest, I'll wait for you."

6. Elders or children are at home. Women are very concerned about sexual privacy. She didn't want to be heard by her elders while enjoying sex and leave a bad impression. When a man proposes sex, he must create a quiet and safe environment for the woman.